Running into someone you know whilst swinging can be pretty embarrassing for some people. Whether you are new to swinging or simply do not want to have other people know what you do you, will need to understand what you can do to make this situation less awkward and uncomfortable.
Coming Clean
If there is no other way around it, then you need to just come clean. If you are at a swinger’s club or meeting and you see somebody else that you know, then there is no way to pretend that you are not there on purpose. Once you both come to terms and accept the fact that you are both swinging you can move on to the next step.
Fighting the Awkward Tension
It can be incredibly awkward at first when you have just seen somebody you know as you are swinging. No matter who they are you are going to need to try to laugh it off and try to treat them as you would any other swinger. If they are there swinging too, then chances are they are going to really appreciate this.
Making a Pact
It is a good idea for you both to figure out how you will act around each other the next time that you see each other outside of your swinging circle. Let them know who knows and who does not in your people that you have in common and decide who you want to know and who you do not. This can make the next meeting less uncomfortable.