It can be difficult to tastefully tell another couple that you are not interested in swinging. You don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings or make them feel bad. This is something that can end up ruining their night or hurting their confidence. Here are a couple of things that you can do to try to make this situation one that is less upsetting for them.
Be Honest
While you may not need to tell them that you find them unattractive or not sexy you should let them know that you are not interested. Trying to make excuses can only confuse them and make them think that they may later have a chance at swinging with you. As soon as you simply let them know that they are not your type or that you are just not interested the sooner they will get the hint and be able to move on to another couple.
Be Kind
It is really important that you are not rude to them. Let them down gently and be nice, even if you are not interested in them. Some people think that they have to be rude to a person just because they are not sexually interested in them. Let them down gently, then, if they do not get the hint, you can be a little bit gruffer with them until they understand what it is that you are trying to tell them. Remember that some people respond better when you are nice while others you will need to be rude to. Always start off kind though.